Women: Too Much "Mercy Sex" Will Ruin Your Sexual Relationship
I notice over and over again how other experts and researchers are encouraging women to "just do it" when it comes to sex and addressing desire discrepancies between partners. Now, I believe some mercy sex, and some quickies, are just fine. But I have to warn you not to go with their simplistic advice.
Read: Original YourTango article published in June of 2015.
You might need to learn or to relearn how to like sex, because you have to know what your recipe is -- and you have to insist on getting good parts of it met, to have good sex. (You can use my Body Map exercise to figure out what you like.)
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The Ongoing Quest for Sexual Pleasure for Women
Having reliable orgasms is a worthy goal for women. Sex can still be wonderful even without orgasms, but why not push to get more pleasure? Don't just opt out and have a steady diet of "mercy sex."
There is a new vibrator in town. This one might or might not do the trick for you, but keep experimenting. It keeps you young!
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Better Sex with Your Partner - What NOT to Say!
Would you like to have better sex with your partner? In this video I provide some quick advice what NOT to say, which will result in a better relationship, and yes, better sex!
Dating with E.D. - How to Talk About It (for Straight Men)
Are you afraid to date because you have Erectile Dysfunction? Don't be! I offer some excellent tips in this video for talking about it and finding the right woman!
Men: Here Is What It Looks Like to Break Free from Porn Addiction and Reconnect with Your Partner
Posted on January 20, 2017 by Aline Zoldbrod
I work with a lot of men who have gotten caught up in watching so much pornography that it interferes with their ability to be sexually connected to a partner they love. They find it difficult to be interested in being sexual with a real person. They may have difficulty maintaining erections in a sexual situation. Sometimes, they seem completely mentally and emotionally “checked out” to their partner during sex. Sometimes, depending on a many factors, it’s very difficult to break free of the pornography/masturbation compulsion.
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