Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What
Really Turns You On
Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns
You On (New Harbinger, October, 2002) is a collaboration
between Dr. Aline Zoldbrod and Lauren Dockett, an author who focuses
on women, sexuality, politics and the arts and a talented writer
While Dr. Zoldbrod provided the ideas for the exercises, Ms. Dockett
penned the spicy examples. Dockets erotica and relationship
stories have been anthologized in the collections Uniform Sex
and The Moment of Truth.
From the forward of Sex Talk:
How would you feel if every unhealthy sexual inhibition you have
suddenly disappeared? How about if a partner you'd thought had lost
all desire for you unexpectedly turned to you, after a surprising
and steamy session of lovemaking and said, "Baby, that is the
best time I have ever had."
Sound far fetched? You'd think. But what if it's not? We all have
the potential to be sexually free, to satisfy ourselves and our
partners, and to reach pinnacles of sexual joy. Each of us has that
potential, whatever our age or the status of our relationship. And
the secret to realizing it is something we do every day of our lives.
The secret is talk.
We're not just referring to dirty talk. Although we will, and it'll
be fun. What we mean is no-holds-barred honest talk. Telling each
other the truth in a heartfelt way about what it really takes for
each of us to turn on is the ticket to a happy, healthy sex life.
Praise for Sex Talk:
"There's a great little book that I've recommended before but
that may have been written with you in mind. It's called Sex
Talk:Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns
You On, by Zoldbrod and Docket. It gives lots and lots of good ideas
and scenarios about how to talk to your lover about sex in a way
that opens and furthers the conversations, rather than shutting
-Sex Talk reviewed on Loosie.com
Sex Talk was listed in
Violet's Top Ten Sex Books for December, 2003 on
"The world's remainder bins are full of books that tell you
why communication is vital to sexual relationsips but very few go
far enough to show how couples can express their innermost sexual
desires. (Zoldbrod and Dockett) have compiled 50 techniques from
playing strip poker to mapping your erogenous zones---simple tips....that
with a willing partner could make for an interesting tete-a-tete."
-Sex Talk reviewed in BC Business Magazine
" Required Reading List: Sex 101:
Talking about your turn-ons with a new partner may be difficult
according to the authors of Sex Talk,
open sexual dialogue is essentialfor
a healthy and (and enjoyable) sexual relationship. ....With the
guidance, readers can learn how to voice their sexual needs to get
most from their sex lives."
-Sex Talk reviewed on www.FW:The Art of Living
"If you're tired of books that tell you WHY communication
is vital to sexual relationships but stop short of explaining HOW,
it's time for Sex Talk. The
authors use explicit scenarios, scripts, and easy exercises to help
readers learn to express their sexual desires. Take this book's
message to heart and you'll experience deeper intimacy, renewed
desire, and a soaring sexual self-esteem."
-Anne Semans, author of The Mother's Guide to Sex and The Good
Vibrations Guide to Sex
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